Financial Freak Show

It’s funny how people will sometimes ask a question of you then argue with the answer you give. This blog has brought out the financial questions from people around me and sometimes people don’t want to actually hear the answer to the question. Yesterday one such question started a discussion with a friend of mine that went around in circles for what seemed like a month. Then we abruptly came to an agreement and this quote sums up the feelings around that moment of truth…

 Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you’re wrong. – unknown

 Luckily I wasn’t the one having this realization, at least not this time anyway. The question that sparked the chat was basically this: “how do you get out and stay out of the cycle of car debt?” For myself I saw a pretty straight forward answer (as most personal finance questions are in my opinion). The idea is to save up enough money to pay cash for your next car…that’s it, it’s that simple. The theory itself is simple but getting it done takes some work. We can discuss endlessly the different techniques of how you might pull that off (and I may sometime just not right now).

 My friend’s realization described above was sparked when I asked him the following question:

If you can afford make the payments why can’t you afford to save for it, especially a purchase you can plan ahead for?

Once this question was posed the conversation slammed to a halt faster than a school bus at the train tracks. He looked at me and said I guess you have a point. Things really are that simple. If you have some time to plan for the expenses all you need to do is plan for the expense. True, it’s not much fun and it sure isn’t very sexy but it works. That’s how most of our grandparents bought stuff like cars. They saved up for things and when they had the money they would make the purchase. So what’s different now? Try: marketing, peer pressure, greed, impatience, a lack of discipline, aside from those roadblocks (especially the lack of discipline one) this idea pretty much works the same as it did before.

I doubt our conversation will change the way he operates his finances moving forward but at least the question was recognized and there may be that little twinge of guilt each time he unnecessarily spends on credit. True this may not ruin his life but at least he can now add one more option to his financial text book in his head.

So I now pose the question to my readers:

If you can afford make the payments why can’t you afford to save for it, especially a purchase you can plan ahead for?

Go ahead you can post your excuses in the comment section.