Since my wife and I are trying to reach some specific financial goals we are kind of strict about any money that we blow. The dollar amount that would trigger my wives fury while we were trying to eliminate our personal debts (I know this may sound insanely low to many of you) was around $25. Do remember though that my wife is a saver by nature and I’m the one that liked to spend. Also remember that I’m talking about spending money that wasn’t in our spending plan – I’m not talking about things like food, gas, needed things around the house, car maintenance etc. – I’m talking about things we hadn’t planned for like a cool $52 sweatshirt, or a $175 replacement for the broken cell phone – you know that sort of stuff.

Now that our debts have been cleared (with help from some learned behaviors like this one) our spending threshold has now been adjusted accordingly. We’re now closer to the $80-$100 range for “free” spending. Now that we’ve worked so hard to always discuss and share our finances we usually talk about most things over $50 anyway (note that we talk about it…not fight about it). Hopefully one day with enough hard work and discipline when I surprise my wife with the new Cadillac she wants and the only discussion we’ll have will be where we’re taking it for dinner that night and who gets to drive – now there’s the spending threshold I’m shooting for!

Agreed upon spending limits is where a couple’s shared finances can really help a couple succeed over the long term due to the unavoidable accountability. How’s the saying go? “At some point he’ll have to come home!”

What dollar amount do you feel you should have agreement with your spouse before buying something as to avoid your home turning into a bad Jerry Springer episode?  If you’re single at what dollar amount do you feel you’ve let yourself down buy spending too much?

How long could you cover your household living expenses with your current liquid savings? This survey of 2,318 adults 18 & older asked how long people could survive on the liquid money they had available. It proves how unprepared many Americans are with less emergency money available than the professional financial nerds out there recommend.

• Less than one week 17%
• One week - one month 14%
• One month - 90 days 24%
• Three - six months 10%
• Six months or more 19%
• Declined to answer 17%

The scary numbers are the first two. 31% don’t think they could make it a month. That’s a scary state of affairs for a lot of people out there. Most advisers recommend 3-6 months in liquid money. According to this survey only a third of Americans measure up to those recommendations though it sounds like from recent reports the current economy may have scared some more money into savings accounts over the last year or so. From my experience lately though people have been spending more time whining about being broke than actually doing something about it…I guess we’ll see the next time “it rains!”

So how does  your family measure up? Post a comment and lets us know (don’t worry you can even use a fakie name if that makes you feel better about yourself)

*Survey source: LexisNexis Martindale-Hubbell’s Lawyers.com survey of 2,318 adults 18 and older.

So the good news is they did have a reasonable amount of coverage in place and they were getting a heck of deal on it since the company covered most of the premiums. The bad news is they have no insurance in place if outside of the company. The main problem I see with this situation is that if they leave the company they’ll lose the coverage. True, as long as they remain healthy they could likely replace the coverage with a new term policy at that time but they also run the risk of not being able to get coverage at that time too (due to medical issues or the cost of a new unsubsidized policy.) I think having life insurance other than your employer’s plan is vital especially with two little ones at home. How many people nowadays are going to be at the same job 30 years from now…put a bullet in my head now please! It may be a good idea to look outside of your employer’s policies and see what all your options are.

So we decided they would look into getting a couple new 30 year term policies that they can carry with them no matter what happens to their work situation or their health. They’re also going to keep the current employer policies in place as  since it’s costing them less than $4 per month each for $350,000 in coverage (told you they had a hell of a deal!). Like I said, work insurance can often be a pretty sweet deal, just make sure it’ll meet your needs if you get canned or decide it’s finally time to tell your boss what you really think of him!  

Do you carry life insurance through your employer? Do you have outside insurance? Do you even have life insurance at all?

The first reason is because this simplifies my life greatly in several ways. One I don’t have the stress of debt hanging over me every minute of every day. Second I don’t have many bills to keep track of and pay every month (I currently pay 8 bills each month and half of those are deducted automatically).

The second reason is the big one for me. Taking debts out of the equation means my income is no longer being used to support those debts. Not paying these payments means my income is now free to invest, spend & save. When debt is sucking your income out of your hands as fast (or faster) than you earn it you cripple yourself. You spend your energy and, more importantly, your time trying to climb a mountain you have the weight of payment books trying to drag you back down. You spend your days trying to make money for someone else – I don’t like that feeling.

So by eliminating debt payments you simplify your life and free up energy and cash that can be used towards more productive goals like retirement planning and building wealth. How hard would it be to stash away 15% of your income towards retirement if you had no car payments, credit card payments, or student loan payments? If you don’t believe me calculate your debt to income ratio then swing by the local old people farm and ask them what they would do differently if they had the chance. I’m sure they’ll be more than happy to give you their take on credit cards and car payments.

According to my calculations if I would have stuck to the $5 a day plan every stinking day I would be completely debt free in approximately 21,400 days. Not a bad deal…if I wanted to be debt free around my 90th birthday! Actually it’s more likely I’d be debt free well before that because at some point I’d have to kill myself over it. Of course then my wife could bank the insurance $money$. Anyway, where was I? So at the time the thought of removing all my debt at the rate of $150 a month seemed laughable, but the idea behind the book made perfect sense. The idea was to get in the habit of paying your debts before you had the opportunity to spend your money on something else. At the time I took the book at face value I think because I was desperate for a solution. Now that I look back at it the book makes perfect sense even though the numbers don’t jive. In may posts Micro Paymentality & Sick Day Bonus Pay I talk about how this exact idea can work only on a larger scale. The idea is to fight like hell to find extra money each month then apply it to your bills.

If you manage to get a grasp on your finances and put a couple of the basics into place like a household budget and an emergency fund to prevent you from needing more credit to get by, the $5 a day idea could actually work. No matter how much you can manage to eek out of your budget, as long as you can eek out something, if you put it towards your debts before you allow it to wander out of your life, and assuming you don’t rack up any new debt, you’ll eventually become debt free. Though in my case I busted it and used what I affectionately call the Vinny Financio’s Debt Free on $60 a Day Plan and it worked. I guess I was just a little too impatient to wait until I was 90 or dead to live like this.

They would be allowed to borrow up to 50% of the vested balance with a maximum of $50,000. That should be okay in their case because they have a balance of near $65,000 and are looking to pull about $28k.

The money in their case would be available at a 6% interest rate. The interest does go back to your account but depending on the market performance this could be a losing deal as far as growth.

The loan sort of turn offs your 401k for a period of time while you work to pay back the balance. Well you don’t turn off the entire 401k but the portion you borrowed is no longer considered part of the balance so no growth will happen to the portion you have taken out of the account.

Here’s the big reason I think 401k loans should be used only as a last resort:

If you leave your company most plans require that the balance be paid back into the account within 60 days. This comes due no matter the circumstances of your departure, if you go “Jerry Maguire” on them and walk out the door with the hot receptionist you’ve got 60 days. If you decide to leave because things get a bit uncomfortable around the office after you’ve been fired, you have 60 days. If you’re unfortunate enough to die, 60 days. If the loan is not repaid within 60 days the remaining balance is considered an early withdrawal and you will have the pleasure of paying income taxes plus a 10% early withdrawal penalty (if you’re under 59-1/2). So for many families you’re looking at a full 30%-40% tax bill due on that money. So if my friends borrow the $28,000 they needed and it blows up in their face they are looking at writing a check for $8,400 to $11,000 conveniently right around the time they lose a job. Talk about crappy timing…oh, and add that to the fact that they had to borrow money so they obviously we’re already in a less than desirable situation before they lost the job! And remeber the IRS doesn’t like to wait around for their money.

So I’m not saying a 401k loan is not an option, in some cases it may be the only option someone has to save a house or avoid a bankruptcy. I just want to throw this out there so everybody knows what road they are heading down before they board the special bus.

What’s your experience with 401k loans? Please share.

Of course to make the Magic Month work for you I advise that like a true FinancialFreak you plan for this well in advance. Work these extra funds into your budget prior to getting that fat fist full of cash and take advantage of this magical windfall instead of letting it wander out of your life. No matter what your present financial situation is you can pay down some debts, shore up your big fat emergency fund, lock it away towards one of your savings goals, and maybe even blow a reasonable amount of it.

*Note I said blow a reasonable amount! As always let’s plan ahead, be responsible, have a little fun and make Mr. Financio proud. Remember we’ll likely have this same talk again in a few months so with a little discipline maybe it will be more talk about fun and less about paying debts!

If you follow my posts you will know that I recently sat my lazy butt  down on the couch and watched the entire 2-hour Cocaine Cowboys documentary. For those of you familiar with this program you’ll know that the people interviewed and discussed in this program worked diligently for years to become the best in the cocaine importers in the world.

So the question that came to my FinancialFreak mind after watching this program was what made these guys so special, how did these guys become the best in the business while others were being mowed down in the streets. Two things come to mind. They showed persistence and they performed with excellence, they paid attention to every last detail. These people never gave up, they were absolutely relentless. When they failed at a drop or a pick up they made corrections and went at it again.

Here is an excellent example of what made them so effective. According to a pilot being interviewed they came up with a plan to drop large bundles of cocaine fitted with radio beacons into the water off the coast of Florida from a plane then retrieve them by speed boat. Apparently they had an issue with the suppliers taking shortcuts while packaging the product so as soon as the first drop hit the water the bundles exploded spreading a couple million dollars with worth of high grade cocaine into the Gulf of Mexico. Here is where the persistence part comes in. Do you think this was their last attempt at this plan? Of course not these guys are grade A hustlers. So after delivering a couple mil’ worth of dope to the fishes they tried again. They readdressed the issue with their Colombian suppliers and demanded new packaging for a second attempt. Again the bundles leaked and the drugs were destroyed. So do you think this was their last attempt at the plan? Nope, again they contacted the suppliers had them fix the issue and after two tries and several million dollars in losses they finally got it right.

So through their persistence they became the first guys to move massive amounts of Colombian coke into Florida. While striving for excellence in their chosen trade they only got better at this. The point here is that they never let up, they never folded, and they never stopped fighting, they kept throwing punches until ”the man” finally took them down.  Most people don’t even begin the fight to create excellence in thier lives let alone stay with it. This brings me to my question for you….

Why are you not the biggest, baldest hustler in your city? Let me know what you should be doing better in your life but haven’t displayed the excellence or persistence these guys have?

A contractor friend once told me this quote:

When you come across an electrical problem and a plumbing problem…don’t try to fix them both at the same time!

In other words don’t try to do too many things at once. I decided I would be better served by focusing on debts now which has allowed me to focus more on financing my retirement and reaching those larger goals. I once heard a story about a apartment maintenance man that bought his employer’s apartment complex with cash and managed to retire with over $3 million in the bank years later (that story could be  total B.S. but I did hear it). Well the story goes like this…He saved his butt off and even though he wasn’t making a ton of money over time he managed to save up enough dough to buy the small apartment complex he worked at and began creating some wealth. That’s pretty much the story. Instead of spending his money he saved his money and as the story goes eventually had enough dough to make a big fat real estate purchase. My guess is this person was a pretty simple dude and probably kept himself out of debt (I don’ see any other way he could really save up a ton of money like this). The obvious advantage though is that he was able to use his income to build something instead of paying for crap he bought in the past + interest.

Even if the story I heard was total B.S. the theory’s still valid. Freeing up your income by clearing your debts will allow you to stash away more money and collect interest instead of paying interest. Do that long enough and large enough and you could eventually turn that stack of money into investments to replace your income and build some wealth.  In my post I Call a Do-over I talk about some other advantages to freeing yourself from your everyday debts. As long as your income keeps going towards interest payments on credit cards and cars its going to be hard to use this money for much of anything else (it’s hard to save it if you don’t really get to keep it). So by wiping out my debts I’m now able to save and invest money much more aggressively because I actually have more available money now. 

I’m a long way from paying cash for my an apartment building but I’m a whole lot closer now that my money stays with me at the end of the month.  Freeing up my income has now given me access to the one tool I need to begin building some wealth, my income. 

If you were able to free yourself up from monthly debt payments what would you do with all that money?

I was thinking about this the other day when I heard two ladies complaining about their money issues while they were sitting in Starbucks drinking two $4-ish cups of coffee. You can‘t really complain about not having enough for retirement while you’re sucking down eight bucks worth of coffee (well you can but no one will really care). Even worse I went to lunch recently with a friend who was complaining about how he was broke. That’s not the annoying part though; the annoying part was that he was complaining about being broke while we were driving in his $46,000 Lexus GS350.

My point here is that in both of these cases these people were likely thinking more short term than long term or their problems really weren’t as much of a concern as they were saying it was. Either way I’m fine with it, it’s not my money they’re spending. Though this is something I think about from time to time when I’m making spending and saving decisions. Remember you only get so much money into your life. If you don’t believe me ask an older person I’m sure they’ll tell you what they think about it the idea of infinite money. Ask them if they’d take a do-over if they had the chance. Ask them if they would make spending and saving decisions differently if they could.   

So the next time you hit “4-bucks” to grab a mocha or stop by the Lexus dealer to browse think about the fact that you only get so much money between now and the end of this road trip and consider how your decisions today may fit in and affect your life a little further down the road. If you’re okay with it at that point so am I just don’t take me to Starbucks in your new Lexus and complain about how your broke because I likely won’t care too much at that point. Don’t worry though….I’ll still let you buy my coffee

 Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you’re wrong. – unknown

 Luckily I wasn’t the one having this realization, at least not this time anyway. The question that sparked the chat was basically this: “how do you get out and stay out of the cycle of car debt?” For myself I saw a pretty straight forward answer (as most personal finance questions are in my opinion). The idea is to save up enough money to pay cash for your next car…that’s it, it’s that simple. The theory itself is simple but getting it done takes some work. We can discuss endlessly the different techniques of how you might pull that off (and I may sometime just not right now).

 My friend’s realization described above was sparked when I asked him the following question:

If you can afford make the payments why can’t you afford to save for it, especially a purchase you can plan ahead for?

Once this question was posed the conversation slammed to a halt faster than a school bus at the train tracks. He looked at me and said I guess you have a point. Things really are that simple. If you have some time to plan for the expenses all you need to do is plan for the expense. True, it’s not much fun and it sure isn’t very sexy but it works. That’s how most of our grandparents bought stuff like cars. They saved up for things and when they had the money they would make the purchase. So what’s different now? Try: marketing, peer pressure, greed, impatience, a lack of discipline, aside from those roadblocks (especially the lack of discipline one) this idea pretty much works the same as it did before.

I doubt our conversation will change the way he operates his finances moving forward but at least the question was recognized and there may be that little twinge of guilt each time he unnecessarily spends on credit. True this may not ruin his life but at least he can now add one more option to his financial text book in his head.

So I now pose the question to my readers:

If you can afford make the payments why can’t you afford to save for it, especially a purchase you can plan ahead for?

Go ahead you can post your excuses in the comment section.

1. Toss them to the curb and go back to the old standby pair. (makes good sense)
2. Toss them to the curb and replace those bad dogs with a fresh pair. (how I would have done it in the past)
3. Try to track down the world’s smallest screw and attempt to make those NASCAR pit crews jealous with my rockin’ repair work.  (likely not going to work but what the hell I’ll give it a shot, 3 it is!)

So I figured all I needed was the world’s smallest screw. I stopped into a sunglasses store and asked the girl if she could help. And bless her little sales-girl heart, she recommended that I might be interested in a new pair. So I asked her “do they cost the same price as the screw?”Apparently the answer was “No” since she never actually responded while she dug around in a drawer behind the counter. She came up with a small box with atleast 2000+ assorted little screws and several screwdrivers. While she “screwed around” with my glasses she again mentioned that they had 10% off this same particular brand and she pointed to a big hanging sign displaying two hotties wearing some sweet new shades having the time of their lives on the beach. She then told me I should try a couple pairs and see what I liked. So I figured what the heck, lets browse around while I’m waiting for her to do her magic. Sure enough 30 seconds later I began having those “hey, these are pretty nice” thoughts. Luckily before I asked to try them on I heard “looks like I got it here”.  Good timing little sales girl that was seriously a close one! So I thanked her for the free fix up job and hit the door. 

I felt like a new man. I felt like I had single handedly concurred the little sales girl and stared into the face of one the world’s vast marketing machines. At this point I was thinking about how easy it could have been to separate me from my cash if she hadn’t been able to fix my sunglasses.  But since I started my never ending fight towards my domination of personal money matters I’ve noticed the commercials and marketing BS seems much louder and more obscene than I remember. There’s a constant prodding to take action, to conform or to be different depending what wares they’re trying unload on you. You’re too fat, too skinny, too gray, too many wrinkles, your boobs are too small, and that car is sooo last year. The pounding never ends and thank goodness we don’t consciously take in all the sales and marketing that’s presented to us every day. If somehow I was able to pay attention to all if it I’d probably only buy two things…a bottle of Jack Daniels and a handgun and attempt to ease the pain from the overload it’d cause.

It’s an ugly world out there when it comes to your money so keep your guard up. Keep your financial goals in mind. Remember that your money is finite so spend accordingly.